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Kink Basics for Beginners
We live in a world that is forever expanding its horizons. Things that were once horribly taboo are finding their place in mainstream society. Books like Fifty Shades of Grey brought the world of BDSM and kinky play onto the bedside tables of housewives, mothers, and even grandmothers. Mainstream artists like Rihanna, Christina Aguilera, and Lady Gaga brought forth images of leather and kink in their music videos, thrilling the imagination of these women who had otherwise not considered venturing into that side of themselves. I would know; upon the release of the Fifty Shades series, I was working at a sex shop in a small city. Women who would otherwise stare straight ahead as they walked by were walking into my shop with blushing faces, carrying their favorite chapters to buy new toys to introduce to their partners. It became so frequent, we even introduced a specialty Fifty Shades of Grey-themed wall.
By Evie Dahl4 years ago in Filthy
Dear women, with these 7 erotic adventures men will never forget
Allow me, gentlemen, a woman writes to you. About things that a man should have done during sex with a woman. Why a woman, you probably think, where it is about the male love life? Don’t men know better? Know yes, only they do not talk about it with each other.
By Omara4 years ago in Filthy
I Have a Kink
Some people are ashamed to admit they want more pleasure. I tell you it's okay. Come chat with me in a safe place --> (click here)
By Lizzie Martinez4 years ago in Filthy
Can you talk a woman to orgasm ?
In the beginning was the Word, long before the serpent and the apple. And the world was still good and called paradise. What would it be like if you could lead the Word? If you could speak so movingly that it comes to ecstasy. Until your beloved is no longer silent, but moans with pleasure.
By Omara4 years ago in Filthy
How men get to the XXL climax
Every man comes differently. How would you describe your orgasm? Like a rocket launch, like the first sip of coffee after a night of drinking, like squeezing a tube of toothpaste rolled up to the point of bursting? Or like the biggest pyro show the world has ever seen?
By Omara4 years ago in Filthy
The 5 best masturbation techniques for men
Masturbation is the easiest way to reach orgasm — especially now in times of a pandemic with contact restrictions. However, many men have learned in youth to masturbate mainly quickly and silently, so that they do not get caught. These techniques, trimmed for effectiveness, often persist into adulthood.
By Omara4 years ago in Filthy
Stop Being Annoyed By Your Partner
If something isn’t so great or it’s simply mediocre, most of us want to do our best to improve it -- especially a relationship or marriage. In fact, we typically want to ensure that our romantic relationships last and get better over time. I’ve got a not-so-secret for you: even if we are constantly improving our relationships, without realistically managing expectations in relationships, you might find yourself feeling more and more annoyed and less and less in love.
By Leigh Norén4 years ago in Filthy
Giant penis: 7 tips for sex with a (very!) big penis
What to do if he has a giant penis? While some men are afraid that their best piece is too small to please women, others fear just the opposite: men with a giant penis have at least as hard a time in bed as, say, those with a micropenis. After all, a very large specimen can cause quite a bit of pain during sex — especially for the woman. In other cases, even insertion into the vagina is unsuccessful, giving a whole new meaning to the phrase “we don’t fit together.” But what can you do if everything fits in the relationship, only the penis does not enter the vagina? To make sex with XXL penis a pleasure for you and your partner, I have collected a few helpful tips and the best positions.
By Omara4 years ago in Filthy
What men can learn from lesbians in bed
It’s almost funny how many proverbs come to mind when you think about good sex … “No master has fallen from the sky”, “Good things come to those who wait” or even “You never stop learning”. With this in mind, we asked journalist and writer Mona Eichler, who as an outed lesbian, columnist for the lesbian magazine ‘Straight’ and book author (‘Von Sex, Liebe und Farben’, Schwarzkopf & Schwarzkopf) insanely likes to write, think and talk about the most beautiful secondary matter in the world, for sex tips for men. After all, it doesn’t hurt if a man learns a few tricks from lesbian love, does it? The sexpert thinks so too: “I always ask my buddies about what they do with their wives in bed — it works the other way around too!”
By Omara4 years ago in Filthy
What blowjob he will never forget ?
Secondly, if you don’t feel like letting men tell you how to blow them, then we have to warn you: Only men are talking in this article. Because one thing is clear: they’re the only ones who can really tell you what feels best from a male perspective.
By Omara4 years ago in Filthy
How To Make Orgasms Better
As a sex therapist, my main focus is to help clients reduce negative feelings and thoughts about sex. You see, most don’t seek out therapy for a quick tip or two – it’s real, deep work that involves acknowledging that which you might long have been avoiding.
By Leigh Norén4 years ago in Filthy
50 Shades? I'm In. Now What?
Since the idea and forming of the kinky community we have always had mentors. But now we have Google, it's probably how you found this article. So welcome to my creative world of kink.
By L.S. Diamond4 years ago in Filthy