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Children: Our most valuable natural resource.
To the Mothers of America:. Top Story - May 2020.
Remember when you discovered you were going to be a parent? The moment you learned that inside you, was another life? Remember the incredible fear and excitement you felt all at the same time? All you worried about was whether or not you would be a good mother. Do you remember when?
By Dr. Megan Babb6 years ago in Families
A Letter That I’ll Never Read Out-loud.
I feel ugly. Some of my actions or responses to things go wrong and it comes backs at me like a roaring fire. I can barely breathe sometimes when he’s mad and says things, but he apologizes. Makes it better. In the process of making me feel unwanted. A Burden. That word BURDEN. I always feel like a burden. I’m not wanted anywhere, i’m just coexisting. I fear i have an illness. Mental one. Postpartum. Depression. That’s another one. DEPRESSION. How can one word hold so much weight. WEIGHT. Ugh, i hate. “You need the excercise.” “Omg you got to lose weight girl.” “Stop being so lazy and walk faster. Keep up.” “Stop eating.” “You shouldn’t eat that if you’re trying to lose the weight.” “You’re really fat now.” They replay in my head on a never ending cycle. I go days without eating sometimes. I won’t eat until i feel weak. I do drink water though. I guess it helps with my appetite. I feel like i’m not doing what i should be doing for my kid. I’m raising her but am i keeping her healthy ? Am i being the best mom? Am i doing a bad job ? I must be cause that’s what she tells me. HER. She’s my fear. She made it her mission in life to make sure i will forever need her no matter if that taunts our relationship or not. She treats me so horribly but she gave me life. Evil lives within her and i fear it lives in me too. My worst fear is that evil being inside my baby.
By Susie Castro6 years ago in Families
5 Ways to Continue Your Children's Education This Summer
Let's face it: your kids probably haven't had the educational experiences you hoped they would this year. Instead of lamenting time lost, take charge of their learning and keep it going throughout the summer. By carrying learning throughout the summer, your kids will be better prepared to return to school in the fall on schedule and eager to learn.
By Olivia Picton6 years ago in Families
Set Your Child Up For Success With Storytime
We all have fond memories of listening to our favorite bedtime tales. Hearing stories is ingrained in our DNA as something that’s always been important to humankind, but the positive implications of reading out loud go well beyond the simple pleasures of story time.
By Karie Kirkpatrick6 years ago in Families
Childhood Memories
They are the most unforgettable memories in your in memory lane. That's because you have them from birth, since the time you are born and you come into this world.These memories are very delicate and precious right till the time you die.Well you are very delicate when you try to capture these memories when you are born into this world. But as you come into this world you tend to capture all these beautiful memories.
By karan koshy6 years ago in Families
The Diary of a Single Mom
I am a single mom of 5 children, with two full time jobs and I attend a university online. This year when I found out that my expected graduation date was in December 2020 I did a very clumsy, happy dance in my kitchen. My son, who is almost 10, noticing my incredibly stupid and dorky reaction to whatever I had just read on the computer, looks up from his tablet and says, "ok ill bite mom. Why you so excited?" I turned to him and said, "Because I will be graduating at Christmas this year!" He turns back to his tablet, but not before saying, "well its about time mom." I tried not to take offense to this since I knew he didn't mean it in a spiteful way and in his defense I have spent the past 11.5 years in school-switching my major after 2.5 years and then nearly starting over completely for the 3rd time 5 years ago. My kids are my life and sometimes they crack me up with the things they say. Other times they frustrate me to no end. I feel like the most bi-polar mom on the planet, until I call my best friend. The conversation goes something like this. "So I need to vent about this stupid experience I had this week." In between our 15 minute phone call, we will both have yelled at our kids nearly a thousand times, to "stop picking on your brother" or "I already told you to go play in your room!" or "We don't sit on the baby!" and then there's my personal favorite with my toddler lately, "Stop farting near the baby! It's making him cry!" Some days I feel like my hair is falling out faster than my granny's and my kids love to tease me about getting old. My knees creak like old stairs in an abandoned house. I am so clumsy I pop my hip out of place climbing up the stairs in our house and I am constantly complaining of aches and pains. As if that wasn't bad enough, my mood swings are higher than the rides at the fair. Now here I should clarify-THESE ARE NOT THE HORMONAL MOOD SWINGS WOMEN HAVE. These are the "I have told you 5 times already to pick up your nasty smelling socks that are worse than the trash can smell and put them in your dirty clothes hamper" type of mood swings. They are the "Stop hitting your brother please. I said stop hitting your brother. That's not nice. SERIOUSLY?? STOP HITTING YOUR BROTHER!!" type of mood swings. And I have come to the conclusion that my kids have made a pact: to never let me sleep, one of them always has to be on guard and it's actually entertaining when mom has to repeat things, but when she blows her top, duck in cover! I actually think, that my kids do this on purpose. Kids are smarter than anyone gives them credit for. They are like sponges on speed, with the energy to match and I am so jealous. I can't even harness 10% of that energy on my best days, that is until I drink my 3rd cup of coffee for the day, eat at least my baby's weight in donuts for breakfast and then have to take a nap in the afternoon because of how exhausted how I am, at just merely mothering. But through it all, I'd never change one minute of it. So that's me in a nutshell. Hope you enjoyed reading my introduction and catching a glimpse into my life. If you are a mom, I hope you enjoyed reading this and were able to relate to part of it, if not most.
By marion scott6 years ago in Families
Consent
Consent is predominantly associated with consenting to sex or sexual activities. It isn't really used for anything else, at least not widespread. You don't hear people talking about consenting to kissing, hand holding or hugging do you? I personally believe that lessons on consent should start at the very basics of establishing boundaries, which all kids need to do in order to grow into functional adults.
By iceprincelebrat6 years ago in Families
Who Do You Call at 1am?
Sleep evades me. Separation from my three year old son for a year now, for his safety and mine. In the darkness of not knowing. No video chats, pictures or really aware of what goes on in his life. All the doors shut and communication lacking while the court order says different. I was told it’s like trauma to the body to go from carrying him nine months to being with him twenty-four seven for a year to being ripped apart and out of my life. I had to make a hard decision to leave a toxic relationship with my son’s father for my safety and his.
By Scarlett Price6 years ago in Families
