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Brandy admits ‘there is distance’ between her and Ray J right now, and she’s ‘loving him from afar’

On her relationship with Ray J, Brandy said that taking time apart is "best for me and my peace."

By Skyler SaundersPublished about 5 hours ago 3 min read

To Brandy,

Cut your losses with Ray J. He’s been out here wilidin’ and experiencing medical conditions. Now is the time for you to pursue greater ways to generate revenue. It is a new era for you with the book out now referencing your life.

As a memoirist, you have shared some intimate details about your sibling. This is a new era. You should get in touch with promoters so you can have a dual tour where you go on tour and promote the book.

It already sounds intriguing with your relationship with Wanya of Boyz II Men. But you are wise to keep your distance from Ray J. He is going to sour your well if you continue to have any familial relations with him at all.

You’ve already declared that you’re distancing from Ray J but you’ve gotta keep him out of your life totally. He might cause ruin to you personally, financially, spiritually, and mentally.

What you should do is just indicate to him that he is completely removed from your life. It is rational and selfish to keep your peace of mind and you should be lauded and applauded for your egoism.

Not too many people have the self-regard to consider some members of their family to be toxic. And Ray J seems to be that person in your family that has shown himself to be a horrific example of a person.

You are told by some to always keep family close. This is false. Some people deserve not just to be distanced but altogether banished from life completely.

Brandy, you’ve had some difficult times aside from your sibling. But nothing compares to the erratic and unpredictable character of your brother.

If you look at the reality of the situation, you will be able to see just how injurious Ray J actually is. For your mind to be clear, you have to cut the short stuff short. You’ve gotta make sure that Ray J is absolutely excised from your entire life.

What you will hear is “bring him closer” and “stand with him.” Don’t listen to these deranged individuals. They don’t know that R Jay is a malignant sore in pop culture. More importantly, he is awful to you personally. That might be your brother but that means nothing. He has to earn his position as your sibling. That’s what any individual must do. Your sense of morality is what makes you such a great person. I don’t know you personally but you radiate brilliance nevertheless. I can tell from interviews that you’re a genuine person and have a connection to your supporters.

Your power is in your truth and full disclosure of your life is admirable. Or at least a few episodes from the volume of your existence. What is so crucial about the way you’ve maneuvered through all of this nonsense your brother has stirred up is something to consider.

As long as Ray J consistently shows his entire rear end, you should be prepared to shred ties associated with your brother. What you can do is ensure that your own soul is intact. The values and virtues that consist of a human being are what should be called as the first acts that people have in their lives, All subsequent acts should be focused on morality and ethics throughout an entire lifespan.

The best way for you to understand how horrific Ray J’s actions have been and if he has contributed to his illnesses deliberately, then it is time for you to take time to cut him off all the way. That’s true.

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