Dating
How I knew she was the one!
Going to college was the scariest part of my life, simply because I didn't want the same experience as high school. Fast forward three years into my college career and I finally lost my V-card, I know late bloomer right? Anyways I ended up joining a fraternity after a fallout with a large friend group and found myself. I found my self-worth and where I felt that I belong. For once in my life. I began to be happy. however, that was short -lived because my first serious girlfriend and I ended up breaking up. This led me into a dark place and I just wanted some kind of love or companionship. I was attached becasuse this was the first girl I've been with ever. As months go by I began to just enjoy being in college partying, learning. and living life to the fullest. I then did what every single young teenager does, I downloaded a dating app. I was never really the "Hook up" type of guy but I said I guess I'll try it. So I did, and it was a temporary feeling of happiness although she also somehow found a way to hurt me. Finally. I gave up dating for like 4 to 6 months and focused on passing classes and hanging out with my fraternity brothers.
By Cody Mross4 years ago in Confessions
Emotionally Unavailable
Imagine meeting someone. You two hit it off. You have a lot in common. You have endless conversations. You have amazing physical chemistry. Everything appears to be going well. You find yourself thinking about that person everyday. You want to be around them as often as you can so that you can cement that connection.
By Jessica Gill4 years ago in Confessions
Don't Bring a U-Haul to the Third Date
What a whirlwind of a week it's been and it's only Tuesday. I fooled around and fell in love. I'd like to say it's been fun, but the fun only lasted about twenty minutes. Why was the fun so short? Because mentally I brought the u-haul to the third date, and once my mental u-haul was in the driveway, I felt like my brain came unscrewed.
By Susan Eileen 4 years ago in Confessions
How Can You Tell When It's Over?
Dealing with a failed relationship is hard but it will pass. No respect, no love, no interest in the bull shit. Tired of the games and lack of communication, tired of the pretending and bitterness. I want to be left alone, just as alone as I feel right now.
By Ur Girl4 years ago in Confessions
Dear George
I miss you… Why did it have to end that way? Eight months later and I still cry every time I let myself truly hope that I will get to see you again, hug you again, lay in your arms, feel your kiss, your touch, the comfort that only you were able to provide in my lonely world.
By Hilary Kirsch4 years ago in Confessions
My confession…
Dear mom, here is my confession... I've had a boyfriend for almost three months already. My mom obviously doesn't know I've had over ten boyfriends in the past years.. I hope she never finds out, but I will tell her one day. I will not be sharing my mom's name because of privacy reasons. But anyway, my mom always has questioned if I would get a boyfriend while she doesn't know I've had many. She thinks I don't know anything about relationships, but little does she know I have had more boyfriends than she has had in her entire life! Knowing me, a young independent working woman, I feel bad I could pull so many more boys than my beautiful mom, which is quite concerning. She does question the messages I send to my "friend," which I delete the messages most of the time, but I still have them on my other devices, which she doesn't check at all. She doesn't want me to have a boyfriend until I'm 18+ or at least something like that. I know not listening to my mom is like a crime. But I am starting to think she knows I have a boyfriend. But she's just waiting for me to confess!!! Which I will not be doing anytime soon, hopefully... My boyfriend wants me to admit to my mom and tell her that I'm dating him. He's genuinely a fantastic guy, but I don't want to tell my mom because I'm scared she will get mad and ground me, which I'm not looking forward to.
By Leah Elijah4 years ago in Confessions
Loving Him
To the outside world it was just a simple attachment. Boy meets girl, boy and girl become friends, boy and girl catch feelings, boy and girl lose feelings. The same old drawn out story. But to me it was much bigger than that. You see for years I spent my time alone wondering if I was even capable of love anymore. I had crushes, yes but I never really thought I could find myself actually loving someone. I kept things inside in order not to seem sad and desperate. I wanted people to believe I didn’t care about finding love. I hated the world, and hated the thought of having to settle down in some mediocre life with someone just to not be alone. And then I convinced myself that I was actually better off alone. Love seemed like a scam.
By Yissel m delhoyo4 years ago in Confessions
