Emily Chan - Life and love sharing
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Blog Writer/Storyteller/Write stores and short srories.I am a writer who specializes in love,relationships and life sharing
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What Is True Release?
True release isn't about no longer crying; it's about being able to look back on it all with a smile. You'll still have feelings, and you'll still have regrets, but you'll come to understand the reasons for those regrets. You'll understand that your regrets aren't the other person's. You can still cherish those memories and that relationship. The most precious thing about that relationship is the innocence and growth we experienced within it.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing7 months ago in Poets
Relationship Imbalance: The Cost of Giving In
The greatest unfairness in a relationship is that you feel you can't lose him, but he can live without you. Because of this, he becomes the one who sets the rules. You can only follow, not demand. You can only concede, and with each concession, you lose a little more of yourself.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing7 months ago in Poets
When Does a Good Thing Become a Memory?
In this world, even the best things eventually fade. The most beautiful love can end in discord; the most cherished person may eventually leave; the most lively gatherings come to an end; and the most profound memories eventually dim. Even the most beautiful dreams eventually awaken.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing7 months ago in Poets
Love: Cherish, Don't Regret
There's no such thing as regret in love, only cherishing it or not cherishing it. Those who don't know how to cherish you have no regrets at all. There are no missed opportunities in love, only missed opportunities in general.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing7 months ago in Poets
Have you lost yourself in the name of love?
We often grow up believing that loving someone means giving, yielding, and accommodating as much as possible—even gradually setting aside our own needs so the other person can exist freely in the relationship. But these gestures, which we once believed were expressions of deep affection, can later reveal themselves to be a form of "losing yourself."
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing7 months ago in Humans
Do these thoughts reflect a universal truth?
I've always loved a quote: "I used persistence to burn away all my childishness and willfulness. From that wilderness, I slowly grew rationality, indifference, and clarity." Reading it, I was truly silent for a long time. Because every moment of growth is like this: you set the fire yourself, burning away the naive and simple-minded self of the past, leaving behind the quiet and slightly colder person you are today.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing7 months ago in Poets
Is This Love, or an Addiction?
There’s no shortcut to getting out of a bad relationship, but you can slowly mend your heart. First, you must honestly ask yourself: What do I really want from this relationship? Is it companionship, security, material possessions, or some kind of validation? Stop claiming you're simply in love. You can find what you want elsewhere—perhaps even more completely and painlessly.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing7 months ago in Poets
What if Leaving Isn't a Loss, but an Act of Self-Love?
Leaving isn't a loss; it's the feeling of finally loving yourself. When you love the wrong person, the feeling of loss is incomprehensible. It's not because you aren't good enough, nor is it because you've loved too much or foolishly. It's because you've poured your entire self into a relationship that was already flawed. It's not that you didn't see the cracks; you did. But while you felt bad for them, you told yourself, "It's okay, I'll fix it. I'll hold it together." What was the result? After holding on for too long, you began to break, shattering carefully and silently until you were unsure if the you who once believed in love and deserved to be loved properly still existed.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing7 months ago in Humans
What Truly Sustains Love?
Is there anyone else who, after a while in a relationship, starts to question what they're really doing? It's not that the love isn't there, but one day, you suddenly wonder, "What is truly most important in a relationship?"
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing7 months ago in Humans
