Emily Chan - Life and love sharing
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Blog Writer/Storyteller/Write stores and short srories.I am a writer who specializes in love,relationships and life sharing
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What Are the Only Three Things in This World?
There are only three types of things in this world: our own affairs, other people's affairs, and God's affairs. We can only control our own affairs; the affairs of others and of God are difficult to change.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing5 months ago in Poets
The Paradox of Acceptance
What you accept disappears. Psychologist Steven C. Hayes once conducted a fascinating experiment that revealed a truth we often overlook: what truly causes pain is often not the emotion itself, but the resistance we desperately use to suppress it.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing5 months ago in Humans
Why Reciprocal Proximity Matters More Than Boundaries
Beyond boundaries, what's more important is "reciprocal proximity." I once had a friend who constantly asked me to visit her. I went five times, and she never once offered to come over, yet we always had a great time together.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing5 months ago in Humans
The Silent Love of Middle Age
When people reach middle age, the biggest fear isn't loneliness, but falling for someone they shouldn't. At this point in life, it's not that no one pursues you or that no one is there for you; it's the moment someone truly connects that you know the danger has arrived. You find yourself unable to control your longing or suppress your emotions. Even when you understand it's destined not to work out, you still desperately want to get closer.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing5 months ago in Humans
What Does It Truly Mean to Be an Emotionally Stable Adult?
Things you can easily lose never truly belonged to you. Embrace this truth and strive to be an emotionally stable adult. Do not expect too much from anyone or anything. When you release expectations, you eradicate disappointment, quiet the anxiety over gain and loss, and prevent emotional outbursts.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing5 months ago in Poets
Relationship Compatibility: Effort and Value
Compatibility isn't about being the same age, having identical personalities, or sharing every interest. Instead, it's about the mutual desire to stay together and the shared joy of being in each other's presence.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing6 months ago in Poets
What Is 'Suitable'?
Someone once asked me, "What is 'suitable'?" I paused for a moment, thinking about the friends I’ve grown close to. I realized that one of the things I enjoy most in my daily life is simply being with them. Even when we're not doing anything, we never feel bored. Even the silence becomes a joy. When we don't feel the need to rush and fill the gaps with conversation, it's the most ordinary yet cherished time of my life. No matter how far apart we are or how long it's been since we've talked, the thought of the things we've done together still makes the corners of my mouth turn up. Having someone in your life who can make you smile even when they're not around is a blessing.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing6 months ago in Poets
Will I Ever Be Truly Loved?
Perhaps it's the lack of stability during childhood that makes you yearn even more for a happy family. The attachments you developed with your parents deeply influence how you relate to others in the future. If you were constantly ignored, blamed, or told to be "sensible," obedient, and quiet, you may have long been accustomed to suppressing your emotions. This is because you fear that if you express your true feelings, you'll be disliked, rejected, or even abandoned.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing6 months ago in Poets
